4 Steps to go from a negative to positive mindset!

4 Steps to go from a negative to positive mindset!

Try as we might to keep our fears out of consciousness, they will eventually surface. When this time comes and we allow ourselves to become aware of our fears, we are at a critical choice-point in our life.  The good news is that we can expose and overcome your fears and the harmful behaviors they cause. When you are willing to be honest and compassionate with yourself and others, you can work toward exposing your fears and facing what is causing them.

Learn 4 Steps to help you get there in this blog post!

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What Just Happened? Are You In The Victim-Victimizer Swing?

What Just Happened? Are You In The Victim-Victimizer Swing?

You are a success in everybody’s eyes. Maybe you are the one who “has it all.” Then one day, something happens. You lose your job or your spouse dumps you. Unlike a lot of people who see this as a loss and setback--something to overcome--you feel totally helpless and overwhelmed with life. You seem to have no resilience at all. Or you make a dramatic shift from being a rather easy-going person to an angry, vengeful one. Would you like to understand what happened?

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Dr. Ben Carson, A Siberian Tiger, And A Goat

The Russian newspaper headline reads, Siberian Tiger Becomes Unlikely Friends With A Goat It Was Given To Eat. According to the article, the two eat together, play together, and have a fine old time. 

What? How did this happen?

The article continues, “Simply stated, when the goat was released into the enclosure it did not show any fear. It didn’t act like prey.” “No one had taught the goat to be afraid of tigers, So the adversaries became friends, instead.” state the zoo park officials.

This recounting makes me think of Dr. Ben Carson’s story and how his mother refused to allow her sons to see themselves as victims. 

Humm, is there something here for us to learn? Think for a moment how Carson's refusal to see  himself as a victim may have freed him to become an outstanding neurosurgeon.

In Become the Person You Were Meant to Be there is a section that deals with the Victim-Victimizer Swing. Understanding how the "Swing" can take over and how to deal with it when you fall into it (and you will!) can change your life. By the way, it’s never too late to stop doing the same old thing and to do something new and different, 

 Read more at http://www.grindtv.com/wildlife/siberian-tiger-becomes-unlikely-friends-with-a-goat-it-was-given-to-eat.